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What I Learned from Seeing Kinky Boots!

Diversify your thinking

I confess that I had my eyes opened wide recently when I saw a group of transgender men thrust themselves towards us provocatively wearing Knee High Kinky Boots. What was more embarrassing, I was sitting beside my 14 year old daughter watching this spectacle and had to provide a very fast forward running commentary to update her on the facts of life that I had omitted in previous chats. We were on a weekend daddy and daughter trip to London and a lovely lady at the ticket booths earlier that day had recommended this Olivier award winning West End Show “Kinky Boots” as a must see. We booked immediately and we weren’t disappointed as the show was a knockout.

It told the story of a traditional English shoe manufacturing business in freefall and a son who needed to turn it around after his father’s death. He was fresh out of college when he had to return from London and save the business. He had little experience of change management and was very unsure of his own career path. The musical has some core messages running through that we can apply to change and career planning.

Parents Career advice

The career advice the son received from his father was to take over the business. The son wanted to head to London and enjoy a different life but his father was interested in legacy and passing the business onto the younger generation. But less than one third of family businesses survive the transition from first to second generation ownership. There is enormous pressure on many children to do what their parents believe is the best career choice for them.

My career advice? Never take a job out of duty or responsibility to your parents or another person for that matter. This leads to unhappiness and a growing resentment as you get older. Your parents, while well-meaning, only see the world from their perspective, they’re from a different generation and their career advice is not always right for you, especially in this much changed world of work.

Following someone else’s dream

In the show, the son’s girlfriend was very pushy, she wanted the expensive boots and the dream lifestyle associated with being attached to the business owner’s son. She had created her dream of living in London but had not taken the time to truly understand what motivated him. He was unwilling to let her down and was following her direction because he did not know what he wanted himself. He did not trust his own opinion. He depended on his father for his identity until he ran away. He was torn between a father that saw him as the heir and a girlfriend who saw him as the answer to her upmarket dream lifestyle.

“To thine own self be true are wise words” from George Bernard Shaw. Don’t get caught up in someone else’s dream. Seek help to become brave enough to call it out early before you feel you don’t have the power to turn back. It doesn’t matter how far you have gone down one road, remember you can always turn back.

Don’t worry what anyone thinks

I attended the Talent Summit recently where Dan Pink spoke about the benefits of enabling Autonomy, Mastery and Purpose in the workplace. He was asked after his talk what advice he would have given to his 18 year old self. He gave two answers. (1) Marry well – by that he meant marrying not for money (yet he did say it helped!) but someone with whom you can be yourself and (2) “Don’t worry what others think”.

In the west end show, the son was diversifying into producing kinky boots for drag queens. It was a niche but profitable global market replacing his traditional British men’s shoes market which was literally dying on its feet. Initially, he was worried what his employees and the locals in his home town of Northampton would think. He overcame initial resistance, believed in himself and is building a global business now. We all need to diversify our skills for the future to stay ahead of the change curve. We should not worry about those who want the world to stand still, they will be found out in time.

Diversity – We also saw a transgender man in the show not accepted by his work colleagues and his fellow workers refused to use the same toilets as him. I witnessed this early in my career when I worked with a gay colleague and some of my workmates refused to use the men’s toilets at work because he used them! We work in a more multicultural workplace now and we need to resist the mentality that says “we always did it this way” as this type of thinking silences new ideas and inhibits progress.

MIT’s media lab has a long tradition of encouraging unorthodox ways of doing things. Its Chairman Nicholas Negroponte notes: “New ideas emerge from a heterogeneous collection of edgy, unorthodox people, from architecture to arts, from maths to music”. Today, new ideas are not coming from the top of organisations, they are coming from the edge, from those who may not conform to our traditional ways but who have a lot to offer if we only listen and engage them.

In summary, the message from Kinky Boots is to back yourself, worry less about what anyone thinks and embrace diversity as an opportunity to change your thinking which could indeed change your life direction. This quote from Einstein rings true when we take the learnings from Kinky Boots.

“We can not solve our problems with the same level of thinking that created them”  Einstein

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Sunday Independent Profiles Harmonics

Sunday Independent Interview with John Fitzgerald

Entrepreneur Sean Gallagher interviewed Harmonics MD John Fitzgerald for his “Your Business” column in this weeks Sunday Independent.

Click here to read the article where they talk about our innovative consulting company, 10 years in business, new world of work, entrepreneurship and more.

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4 Aces Hold the Key to the Future of Work

Career Progression was all so predictable in the past; when getting a good college education was followed by entering an organisation at graduate level and climbing the corporate ladder. Loyalty and hard work was rewarded with job security and building a pension over time would ensure a secure retirement. How times have changed!

We are witnessing huge change in organisations. Uncertainty has become the norm. CEO’s have never had access to as much information but find it increasingly hard to decipher a clear road map with any degree of confidence. It has never been more challenging to be a leader or an employee because the old rules for business and career success simply don’t work anymore. It’s like we have a 10,000 piece jigsaw strewn all over the floor without the cover to show us the big picture of our idealised future.

Businesses are under increased pressure from employees to provide meaningful career development and career progression. Delayering of levels means less promotion, while new activities require new skills often only supplied by new hires. The loyal employee is being marginalised by this new world of work and they need support. I also hear lots of Future of Work talks with titles like “The Rise of the Robots” warning our jobs are going to be outsourced. The talks are headline grabbing but they offer very little practical career advice for employees on how to bridge the gap to this new workplace.

 Will a robot take your job?

There is even a link on the BBC technology website to assess how susceptible your job is to being automated in the future. It is estimated about 35% of current jobs in the UK are at high risk of automation, according to a study by researchers at Oxford University and Deloitte. Surprising results show that roles such as accountants, finance, telesales roles show a 95% risk of being automated. Check out your own job title here.

One thing we can predict with certainty is that few roles will escape impact, including many in professional and managerial roles. This will have a knock on effect on career paths and the capabilities required to succeed. With so much change, there can be no fixed talent pipeline or definite career pathway. The traditional wisdom offered by senior mentors in organisations is less relevant than before because what they did simply won’t work in the new world of work. This is all new to senior business leaders too and they simply don’t have the answers.

If you are a young technology-savvy employee, you have potentially more information than your boss and more power than ever before. This is a time in your career to take more risks, explore new concepts and offer fresh thinking because you are not biased by the traditional “way we do things around here”. If your ideas get rejected at first, just keep coming back with a better business case each time. This is how you build career resilience.

So what is required to succeed? And what do I mean by the 4 Ace’s?

1. Awareness of Self

We need to become more self-aware. We need to do more work on ourselves and I don’t mean more botox!.  In an era where we will compete with outsourcing of activities to robots, we increasingly need to know our strengths and our limitations. It is not simply a battle between four different generations in the workplace, it is becoming more “human” in our dealings with ourselves and others. We have all met highly strung go-getters who treat others harshly and themselves even worse. They have forgotten what it is like to show empathy to others and to accept gratitude.

Action tip – Take the time to complete some self-awareness exercises to truly understand what makes you come alive and then start to seek projects that play to your motivational skills. The Harmonics  Career Portal, for organisations wanting to offer employees  a self-directed career management solution, has a suite of self-assessment exercises.

2. Awareness of our Environment

 We need to be keenly aware of the changing environment around us. This includes technology, globalisation and demographic changes. The era of average is over; once upon a time people used to work like robots on the factory floor in the industrialised age. We are now at the beginning of the fourth industrial revolution, but this time it is a technology revolution. We have the advantage over robots in being able to think and sense the change around us but only if we become more aware. Once we increase our awareness of the environmental changes we can adapt and reskill.

Action tip – It is your responsibility as an employee to find out more about the future world of work. Download www.flipboard.com on your mobile phone and follow channels like robots, machine learning, artificial intelligence, future of work to become more aware of the changing environment around you.

3. Adaptability

 We have deeply ingrained habits of being and doing but we must become more adaptable to all this change. Charles Duhigg in his excellent book The Power of Habit – “Why we do what we do and how to change” explains that for a habit to be changed we must believe change is possible. He describes the 3 step “cue – routine – reward” habit loop. Our cue could be getting stuck reacting to all of our emails each morning, our routine is turning on Microsoft office first thing and our reward is a full inbox of emails signalling people want me and I am important!

Neuroscience has shown us we get a dopamine reward when we look at our texts and emails, it is a signal we are wanted! We need to move from reacting to “we are wanted” to deciding “what we want” to change in a positive way that works for us. Luckily our brains have what is called neuroplasticity (the ability of the brain to adapt and change) as a result of environmental changes around us.

Action tip – Adaptability is a reactive response to some change that has happened in the environment around us. Think of a time when you changed and why you changed? For me, it was a time when I was unemployed, in debt and needed to start Harmonics to survive and support my wife and family. I had a survival “why” but I also had a growth “why”. I wanted to grow a successful nationwide career consultancy firm that would help change lives. We only adapt and change when we have a strong enough “why”. This Simon Sinek video will help you uncover your “why”.

4. Anticipation

This is one of life’s great skills, the ability to anticipate the future and its consequences. We often follow the path of least resistance and ignore the warning signals in our environment. Great sports players have this tremendous skill to anticipate the next play in the game. Key to making a steal in basketball is the defenders anticipation of where the ball is headed before it gets there. They must anticipate this early enough beating the attacker to the ball and avoiding committing a foul. Superior anticipation skills are an important component of the elite Athletic Brain. In school we were educated to answer the questions the teacher gave us in the exam. The real world does not have set questions and timed answers, we must anticipate what is coming next and trust our instincts more.

Action tip – Anticipation is a proactive approach to change. We are seeking it out before it impacts us in a negative way. We simply need to practice the skill of anticipation and see ourselves as elite corporate athletes who set our own high standards. This article on the athlete brain offers tips on how elite athletes learn to anticipate, you can modify these tips for your career.

In summary, if we become more aware of ourselves and our environment and make a conscious decision to adapt and anticipate change, then we can take control of change and not fall victim to it. I will leave you with this quote to guide you on your way…

“The secret of change is to focus all of your energy not into fighting the old but on creating the new” – Socrates

John Fitzgerald is the Founder of the Harmonics Group. Harmonics specialises in helping organisations plan for change, manage change and support their people through change.

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